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How Maariyah Got Married Over 30 When She Stepped Away From Her Checklist & Listened To Her Heart
I met my husband through his cousin who I randomly met through Facebook one day and who lives near me. Meeting someone through someone that knows both of you, your pasts, issues, etc made a huge diffe... ...more
Success Stories
December 03, 2023•3 min read
How Farhana Got Married Over 30 Through Fierce Self Love & Self Acceptance
We met through friends and we started chatting on Whatsapp for a few weeks before meeting. .. well I stalled him for a few weeks before agreeing to meet him!! ...more
Success Stories
November 13, 2023•2 min read
How Almas Got Married Over 30 With A Glass Half Full Mindset
We met at a marriage event. It was all very halal and our families contacted each other shortly after we met and we agreed to exchange numbers . From the word go it was very different. It was like w... ...more
Success Stories
October 15, 2023•4 min read
How Haifa* Threw The Checklist Away & Got Married To Her Soulmate Over 30
I met him on a marriage website. We only exchanged a few emails before scheduling a call. I first met him very randomly. I was driving home from the north and the weather was really bad so I stopped a... ...more
Success Stories
October 15, 2023•4 min read
The Merits Of Marrying A Divorced Man
One of the cruelest things I hear is when people say that because someone is over a certain age their only option now is to marry a divorced person be it male or female. ...more
Halal Dating ,Dilemma &Society
September 09, 2023•5 min read
Why Single Muslim Women Over 30 Deserve More Respect & Support In Their Search For Marriage
The number of single Muslim women aged 30+ is fast growing and it is about time that we, as an ummah, start to give these women the recognition, celebration and respect they deserve. ...more
Heartbreak ,Empowerment &Society
September 09, 2023•8 min read
Could I Marry A Man With Children?
The older you get the more likely it is that you are going to be meeting men with children as potential matches. Contrary to popular belief this is not a “step down” or a “consolation prize” that the ... ...more
Dilemma ,Mindset &Society
September 09, 2023•6 min read
How Do I Keep Him Interested?
Dear Soraya, I wish I knew how to keep a guy interested. I see ladies all round me meeting guys and those guys seem to absolutely worship them! I don’t know how they do it. I feel like I don’t know an... ...more
Halal Dating ,Male Behaviour &Empowerment
September 09, 2023•4 min read
Am I Too Old To Get Married??
This is a question I get asked a lot! It actually makes me feel quite sad that our ummah and various communities have led single Muslim women over 30 to feel this way. I have yet to read a single ayah... ...more
Fears ,Heartbreak Empowerment Mindset &Society
September 09, 2023•4 min read
Is My Deen Incomplete Without Marriage??
One sister reached out to me and asked “if marriage is half of my deen does that mean I am not fulfilling my deen?” whilst another sister asked “if we are made in pairs then what if my pair is already... ...more
Fears ,Empowerment &Society
September 09, 2023•5 min read
Is He A Good Guy?
Sisters often ask me if there’s a sure fire way to tell if a guy has potential and is worth the time getting to know him. ...more
Halal Dating ,Male Behaviour &Dilemma
September 09, 2023•5 min read
Is Your Checklist Secretly Sabotaging Your Search?
Today I am going to ruffle some feathers and probably earn myself a few unsubscribers but there’s a topic I’ve been wanting to talk about for a long time and that is our fixation on certain non-negoti... ...more
Fears ,Mindset &Society
September 09, 2023•8 min read
10 Simple Questions That Can Save You 3 Months With The Wrong Guy!
Discover who has true potential the first time you meet!
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